Sick leave

We ended up at home on Friday with Ming on family care leave because i was on the bed whole day dealing with this cramp on my lower abdominal. It was so painful that i can’t even walk i’m sure it’s not period cramp but a different kinda pain that i never experienced. So i was bed rest and slept the whole day while Ming take care of Chloe, i feel our house was malfunction if i’m sick because we have no help Ming can’t go to work but stay home and take care of us. I really need to find out what happen to my body and be fit again, poor Chloe went school without tying her hair and wrong shoe, Ming told me teachers first response was Chloe what happen to you today, why your hair so messy? All teachers know mummy was sick laying on the bed, Chloe cannot disturb mummy because she proudly go and announcement to everyone in school. Didn’t went to doctor but scheduled once next week to find out why. The pain subsided the next day not all but much better so we can carrying on with our plans.


Only then i realized i accidentally arrange so many set of friends coming during this weekend till Monday. Wow i’m really sucks at planning my time, on Sat morning we went to the market get ingredient for steamboat dinner then adjourned to mall nearby for more ingredient and meet up with a friend from church. Brought her home serve her tea and cake while Chloe went to nap and did some discussion for our upcoming deco project in Church. We’re so detailed and focus till she’s was late for next appointment.

Steamboat dinner

Soon after SY left, Ming and i start to prepared for steamboat, good that we go for steamboat because the soup was sent to boil since morning we just need to take out the ingredients when our friends are here. This round was Ming’s friend Keatlim & PY , we prefer intimate gatherings so we only invite one set of friends a time also easier to prepare meal too. Chloe had her dinner first before our friends arrived so we can enjoy chatting and take our time to eat. The longest steamboat dinner ever from 7.30pm to 9.45pm we chat, eat chat and eat while Chloe entertained herself with toys and playing with PY on and off at the dinning table. No picture this whole weekend because we were too busy and good to off social media but focus on real face-to-face social life. We were so so full from all the eating, it’s been a while since i stuff myself with so much food!

Ping the Chef

On Sunday we went to church as usual after Sunday Schools we reached home almost 3pm! half day gone! Ping and Will are on the way here too for dinner! This round Ping was the main chef she in charge of the main dishes while i help around, so not that stress but fun cooking together we keep laughing at small things. Then we went downstairs to the playground after wake Chloe up from her nap, and left her with them while i go upstairs with Ming to get the dishes ready. So blessed to have them as they kinda enjoy spending time with her on and off she even want to be Chloe’s Godma.


So they were the 3rd set of friends then on Monday we have playdate with Vivian and Tong, is fun to see how toddlers play together they are at the age of knowing how to play with peers, made conversation even a simple bumper can entertained them for quite some times. Lastly tonight our banker will come over to get our bank loan application done!

Wow i’m impressed how i managed to survived after the abdominal pain episode! However Ming and i enjoy hosting friends at our little crib, we can foresee that we will do more at our new place! Next weeks onward i’m going to stop meeting friends but focus on sourcing for material meeting up ID/contractor before our trip.


Anyway this week was not done yet my in-law decided to visit this Thurs – Sunday, mainly to come and have a look on the house and spend sometimes with Chloe. So i have to cancel my gathering with sisters from Church, we’ve been looking to it for so long but my in-law seldom visit us so no choice but to be a good daughter-in-law. Ohh and also a breakfast date again with Sab but this round at my house. Cheers to exciting week ahead~


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