my girl never fail to give me new patterns everyday, we both are learning new things each day
she is now more responsive other than milk and sleep she want to play too! she giggles and laugh out loud at stupid or most lame thing me and hub do which is very rewarding
my mum say she is a little PR as she smile back to anyone who smile at her (provided she’s in her good mood) she smile at random cleaning aunty in the mall to doctor who going to examine her
Hope she continue be a happy baby and bring joy to others and us!
this 3 months we have been trying to adjusting her to fit in our lifestyle i must say it require a lot of patient a lot more than any other job or test i faced in my life so far! haha
we read parenting books, study baby behaviour, get advice from other parents and the folks back home..
we listen too much from others saying keep carry her later she demand to carry all the time, don’t rock her to sleep later she can’t fall asleep herself, don’t let her sleep on boob don’t nurse to sleep, faster start train her to sleep thru there way too many don’t
its give me extra stress made me think how fail am i yes she want to be carry all the time, yes i have to rock her to sleep in daytime, and yes i nurse her to sleep and i do all the don’t
everyone have different say and judgement but once my friend told me something that hit me she told me “every baby is different don’t stress out go with her flow and slowly adjust her most important is to enjoy the time with her because all this doesn’t last long one day she will eventually wean bf so no more nurse to sleep, she will learn to crawl and walk who want to be carry by then baby will grow out of these so call ‘bad habit’ eventually..so why stress”
I did try my best to train on sleep routine but not for the carry part because this girl cry a lot and she don’t just cry she scream like bloody murder yes she is that fierce
so now i always remind myself every babies is different so there is no right or wrong do, in order to make my motherhood more enjoyable i choose to have her happy and we’re happy as long as it’s follow God’s word, and even if it goes against the wisdom of the experts, it’s working for us that matter most~