National Day BBQ + Chloe 3rd Birthday

o after our celebration in KL in my house and my in law place on the actual day we planned a mini bbq section with close friends very mini one indeed i didn’t even invite my relatives/cousins in SG or Chloe classmates. Because i paiseh have to trouble people to come and i prefer to host small party. I’m glad i did that because i manage to spend equal time with each guest and keep them occupied.

One thing about bbq was to get everybody can involve in food preparation however feel bad to them as they need to work a little to get food haha..This bunch of guest very kind and helpful they take turn to help or babysit kids without asking! Even my friend commented your guest all so kind!

A small area for kids to hang around and play with toy i brought it down, it does kept them occupied for awhile after that they are running everywhere.

Cuties taking photos together, this Chloe really petite la. Just went for 3 years old assessment at Polyclinic this morning, nurse say she on the small size but grow according to her own pace and totally normal asked me not to worried but still … She suggested me to give her more snack time to increase her intake on food to see if that help her to grow some fat.DSC05635-18With our princess for cake cutting! Ming look tired from all the bbq, thanks for the hardwork in preparing the food.

They looking happy and excited for the cakes! Keep taking their photos and forget about our group photos!! blame my prawn head!

Thanks to all my kind guests who make it happen!DSC05675.JPG

Gift from everyone from friend in Kl to SG, let her unwrap them one by one then i kept all in the store room, next morning i give her the barbie from my boss to unbox first she’ve been playing with it for 1 week + now not sign of getting bored, see how long can this barbie last till next new toy.

We didn’t brought her any present this year but this party memory shall be the one.

May God’s love always surrounds you, and may the path that you walk on each day give glory to our God. May God always be with you today and all the days of your life.

I love you so much, my darling daughter.

You are my life’s biggest blessing. Happiest birthday!

Quick one

After we got back to Singapore on Monday night, it’s been busy and hectic. Need to unpack quickly and tidy the place a little so our part-time helper can do her usual cleaning. We are so tired on Tuesday morning, Ming decided to let me and Chloe sleep in without waking us up. She have been skipping school for 2 weeks now plus national day holiday that will be 3 weeks! Since she’s still young i don’t mind skipping class spending time with family is equally important too when she grow older we don’t have this luxury to travel on non-school holiday anymore.


#1 The amount of parcels waiting for me after 2 weeks, mostly are party related stuff and Chloe’s clothes. Luckily all the purchase are Ming approved if not he will get heart attack receiving parcel after parcel.

#2 Chloe helping me with cookie for party tomorrow, she really enjoy whisking and helping with baking and cooking should do more with her. Letting the dough rest while she nap, later we gonna sent it to oven together.

#3 Meats that Ming order from The Butcher arrived, we are going for western style bbq with different cut of steaks and lamb, need to marinate tomorrow morning. I brought free range chicken wing from market then marinated it with sauce and vacuum packed it for more favor. Need to get the skewer and fruits ready tomorrow morning, luckily we option for the cake to be deliver if not tomorrow is gonna be really pack! Hope the food enough to feed our guest and no left so we don’t need to deal with leftover.

 Hope everything turn well tomorrow~


Tomorrow is the last day of our trip! Why time passed so fast but I miss my baby and Husband very much too can’t wait to see them! Tomorrow we gonna spend whole day at the Spa + Onsen since we already used up most of our money plus sore feet/body from all the walking so a day spend at the spa is the best option!

So far it’s a pretty good trip, chloe seems doing very good with my parent and today my dad even volunteered to babysit her whole day and asked my mum to go to work as usual! Super surprised he did a good job feeding/bathing and entertained Chloe full day! Brought some gift for them as appreciation although my gifts are too small for their sacrifices these few days,my mum said it’s more tiring taking care of Chloe than having to go to work this made me feel so bad. Need to treat them a good meal when Ming is back.

Received a really good news just now that a brand that I followed quite a while ago approached me for sponsorship! I’ve been quietly stalk them and like their posts occasionally apparently their lady boss spotted me and followed me since then. I’m really thrilled and happy but worried also I can’t deliver any conversion but I’ll try to take as many nice photos as possible as a return for their generosity. Actually I always feel stress when brand or shop approached me as I know how social media marketing works and of coz everyone expect a return from giving. So I don’t have a rate card or charges I only accept stuff I’m really interested in and confident that it will bring at least some feedback and brand awareness. My followers have been with me for long time (I’ve privatised my ig account and stop accepting strangers since last year) so my followers have been stagnant since then that’s why I always tell those brand I can’t promise any conversion but I can provide quality photos I don’t accept cash but only sponsorship on things I really want and share review honestly. Some turn down (maybe my lack of confidence) some are happy with my honesty in the end of the day I don’t want my ig to filled with sponsorship/advert I don’t want be famous/influencer either i don’t earn from this platform I just want to be me and post freely and stress free.

Sidetracked too much, anyway looking forward for my chilax day tomorrow! Will blog more about the trip soon before I forget all the details.